How to break a bad habit (without white-knuckling it)

You don't break a bad habit through willpower. You break it by making the trigger less visible, adding friction to the behaviour, and giving yourself a replacement that meets the same underlying need.

Every habit has three parts

Cue → behaviour → reward. The cue is what triggers you. The behaviour is what you do. The reward is what your brain remembers. To break a bad habit, disrupt at least two of the three.

The four moves that actually work

• Remove the cue — phone out of the bedroom, biscuits out of the cupboard.
• Add friction — log out of apps, uninstall, put treats out of reach.
• Replace the reward — swap scrolling for a walk, snacks for tea.
• Change your environment — most bad habits are context, not character.

Don't try to break more than one at a time

Willpower is finite. Pick one habit to break, give it 8 weeks, and only then move on. Trying to overhaul everything at once is the fastest way to overhaul nothing.

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